21 Then Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?”
22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.
Following this passage is the parable of the two debtors which Jesus used to explain this teaching.
Forgiveness is probably the greatest human act that we can bestow upon each other. Nothing is more freeing than forgiveness and nothing is more binding and enslaving than a lack of forgiveness.
Peter was being magnanimous to offer forgiveness to someone seven times. After all, seven was the number of perfection so to forgive someone seven times was quite a feat. But Jesus upped the ante by multiplying Peter’s magnanimous number times 70! To say that Peter would have been flabbergasted is an understatement. “Who can possibly forgive 490 times?” Jesus’ teaching on this was way over the top, in fact, it was so hard to grasp that Jesus told one of the most referenced parables of His teaching.
Imagine being a first-time listener as Jesus told this parable of a man who owed his master ten thousand talents. (For reference sake, a talent was approximately equivalent to 100 days wages. 10,000 talents then was beyond repayment.) So, when the debtor was required to pay and promised to pay it back, anyone listening would have shaken their heads knowing that repayment by a slave was impossible. The forgiveness of a debt of this magnitude would have shown both the immense wealth of the master and the amazing heart of forgiveness that he possessed.
Then the slave who was forgiven and should have then spent the rest of his life treating people better, went to a fellow slave demanding the repayment of one talent, 100 days of wages. The fellow slave asked for mercy promising to pay him back, which, in time, he could have done. The forgiven slave’s reaction of demanding payment, putting the fellow slave in the poorhouse with his family until all was paid, would have upset the first listeners. Justice was not served; mercy was not returned. The man who was forgiven was not an ounce changed by the love of the master.
What do you feel when a fellow Christian withholds forgiveness from you? I have had men and women professing Christ who withheld forgiveness and restoration from me. It was painful each time. As they went their way refusing reconciliation, I wondered if they had been forgiven by God. In the parable, the unforgiving slave was both rebuked by the master and then severely punished for his lack of compassion.
My friends, when we have been forgiven of every sin of our lives by the Master who alone is able to forgive us, how can we hold anything against any other human being? What sin against me comes close to the entire mountain of sins of my life? What can possibly be done to me that comes close to what I have done to God? Since God has fully and mercifully forgiven me of every debt of every sin, what can I possibly hold against anyone?
As the freed slave had the opportunity to live in freedom and mercy, so do we. Living in the freedom of forgiveness is the greatest way in this life to live. Let us join all the men and women of all the ages who having been forgiven by God live in the joy of forgiveness rejoicing in our forgiven state and always forgiving all who act against us.
Today I am watching Owen and Carson and Jared. We are having a good time with puzzles, legos, toys, learning to share, be nice to each other, and more. How much fun can a Papa have in a day? Later I will take the two older boys, Joel and Hudson, to a lake in their community and try our hand at fishing.
We are still praying for the Kirk family as they deal with the loss of Steven. The pain is often unbearable. When I know the details of a service I will let you know.
Have a great day in the Lord,